If you don't like it, don't do it.

I've always gotten off on giving other people pleasure - I don't do things I don't want to do for the sake of someone else. I think it's dishonest and has no place in the bedroom. With that said, I got a real surprise the other night when this conversation took place.. 

HIM: That took forever. I can't believe it took that frigging long. 

ME: I'm sorry. It didn't seem like you were having any fun. 

HIM: I don't do it because I like it. I do it because you want me to. 

I was surprised by how much that hurt.